I love sad story,
yet each time I am done watching one,
I'll start blaming the non-fairytale ending,
which actually realistically potraying the world now.
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Love ?
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Does undying, non-manipulative and genuine love exist ?
Not to mention long lasting love.
We girls often go through the same phase in life
which diverge into 3 stages.
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Stage 1 ( The Courting Stage )
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Guys going after you,
treating you like a princess,
flooding the chapter called love of your life with the sweetest thing you can never imagine,
shower you with ever so lovable cares and attentions,
and of course,
promisses and vows of gazillion eternity.
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As cliche as it may sound, that guy will definitely melt your heart there and there
and leave you with no choice but to
accept his self-proclaimed love.
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Do I sound like I've been hurt trillion times in this overpowering field ?
In fact, NO, never.!
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But, I am surrounded by a lot of failed relationships
of my peers and acquaintance.
Yes, the one with those stages.
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After having you as his girlfriend, here comes...
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Stage 2 ( The From 'me' to 'we' Stage )
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True colours resurfaced by itself.
First few months or worst weeks or
some lucky in disguise girls, years,
you might feel like the happiest person on Earth.
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You will also experience some of the processes in Stage 1,
But time will prove that beloved young man of yours
the other way round.
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Your its-for-your-own-good advises
becomes some unbearable nagging grandmother's stories
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Your texts and phonecalls
becomes his mommy-check-on-son missions.
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Problems you told him
becomes words that made his ears bleed.
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You being by his side
becomes nothing but burden.
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or maybe, your existence itself
becomes his problem.
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He beginning to show you his impatient and starts to neglect you,
spending less and less time with you,
and couldn't be bothered about your Birthday, or Valentines day,
forget about anniversary.
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You will even deceived yourself reassuring that you are happy with
the relationship with
I-can't-live-without-you
and
If-I-sacrifice-for-you-you'll-love-me-forever
kind of thing as an excuse.
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Yah, this part might make you feel better
because not all mentioned above happens to you.
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Keep going....
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and here comes the final stage.
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Stage 3 ( The marry Me Stage )
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At this stage the guy might reached the age to settle down
or probably being forced or pressured by his or your parents to do so.
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Not to forget this very up to date tradition,
getting you pregnant in stage 2.
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What else ?
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He's practically immuned to watsoever tactics
you might use to succeed in doing or having whatever
you planned or intended.
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How sad, yea..thats a journey called LIFE.
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Despite all those negative thoughts in a relationship,
there are still HOPES and FAITH in love.
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Most of the relationships will go through those stages,
but not ALL.
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So far i've witnessed a few harmony relationships.
Yes, so afterall, I still believe !!
One in a million chance though.
Its rare, you know..
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Bear in mind,
Don't get yourself involve in a relationship just because
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(1) everybody else is having one,
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(2) you want to test the water( in which you'll end up drowning in it )
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(3) you need financial aid ( by exchanging them with your body )
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(4) of some lame idiotic reason that you cannot survive without a partner
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(5) you are soooooo afraid of being lonely
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(6) you want to show off your 'market value' ( simply dumb and insecure )
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(7) you need someone to share your so called sorrows, and need a
freaking big shoulder to cry on ( EH, what are friends and family for ?? )
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(8) worst comes to worst, lust !
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You'll regret, trust me,
for wasting your time and
precious first time of almost everything.
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Young man out there,
grow up!
You know what type of girl you can bring back home,
so stop fooling around.
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And you, young lady,
think wise.
You can't picture your REALISTIC future together with that
Oh-so-perfect-romeo ??
Put an end to that chapter of your life.
Nothing to loose you say ?
NO! you know exactly what I mean.
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The best thing to do,..
Wait til the right one comes.
If no one comes knocking on your door,
go search la ..
Still don't get any ?
Forget it, you can survive without one =>
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I am not saying that guys are the only
reasons and problems in a failed relationship
(just majority)
because girls can also be the one overreacted,
Overdone and Overpowered things.
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So, if only both clicks,
and are ready to commit to each other
and of course
accepting all the flaws of your another half,
without wanting to change him/her,
things will beg to differ.
Yes, the one in a million chance...
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In a totally unrelated post,
CAROLINE TSAU KAH MUN
are leaving us behind in Malaysia!!
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Darn, its depressing..
For your information, she'll be going to Australia
to futher her studies.
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You know I'll miss you dearly, sayang!
She's a very very good friend of mine!
She's straight foward and
very very beautiful.
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I went out with her, alongside
Kerina and William to the beach
on Wednesday.
Pictures do the talking now aite ...
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Caroline
Me and caroline
Kerina, me and caroline
William, Kerina, me, and caroline
